Jay Russell Ruhren

Jay Russell Ruhren, 53, passed away on December 8, 2022. Raised in River Vale, NJ, Jay was a lifelong resident in and near Bergen County. He was predeceased by his parents, Norman and Barbara Anderson Ruhren, as well as his sister Cyndy Ruhren and her husband Thomas Whelan. Jay is survived by his sisters Nona (Domingo) Echevarria and Margie Goodman, his brothers Douglas Ruhren, Gregg (Chris) Ruhren, Andy (Suna) Ruhren, Scott (Karen) Ruhren, and Tim (Julie) Ruhren, and numerous nieces and nephews.

Jay was a graduate of Cook College at Rutgers University, where he majored in Biology. Jay loved to be outdoors to witness the beauty of the natural world. Early mornings at work as a golf course greenskeeper and irrigator offered glimpses of suburban nature most people don’t get to see. Jay also was very interested in local history, photography, antiques, and ceramic sculpture.

Perhaps because he was the youngest of nine children, Jay typically was quiet and patient with others. But if you asked a question, he was always happy to share his passions and extensive knowledge of plants, animals, left-handed scissors, and many other areas of interest.

The family plans a private gathering. If you knew Jay, please remember him by finding the beauty around you and sharing a kind word.